Getting to know her Fantasies

by james on September 3, 2009

The male human species carry a reputation that they think more than necessary about sex. It is said that they will always think objectively about women. But, it must be said here that women also fantasize about having sex, though not in the way that men do.

Now, it needs to be pointed out that the way women fantasize about sex is much different from the way men do. Men think more visually. They think about the graphic details like legs or breasts. But women think more cerebrally. They want to get excited not through the eyes but through the mind. That’s precisely the reason why women like foreplay so much.

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Women can get aroused even as they talk about something that excites them. But, it does not work that way in men. Men need to have more physical and visual stimuli. However, men should be sensitive to the demands of their women also. They must understand that women are driven by other things than they are. This is how to keep a sexual relationship working. These are some things that you can use:-

1. Tell something to the woman that gives her great pleasure. Probably, you could tell her something about herself, i.e. how good she is in bed, how good she looks, etc. When you appease your woman through such banter, she will reciprocate in good measure.

2. Gift your woman a more extensive foreplay. Men don’t lay much stock by this preliminary activity, but it is important that you participate in it to keep your woman happy. This can include fondling and caressing her, kissing her and playing with her body in other ways.

3. Women like being touched. Touch her everywhere.

4. Women also like getting orally stimulated, just as men do. If your woman is inhibited about giving you head, you could set the example by doing it on her first. She is sure to follow your example.

5. Take care of the woman throughout the sexual act and even otherwise. Even things like taking her out shopping and treating her to a sumptuous dinner might lead her to have good sex with you afterward.

If you are thinking how all these points tie in with her fantasies, you must remember that women that secretive by nature. However, if you can make her trust you completely, she will confide her innermost fantasies to you.

Women are demonstrative. If they understand that you care for them, they will even do things like hug you in public.

It is great if you and your woman share fantasies. If that is the case, you could get involved in them together and have a truly marvellous time.

You are certainly quite possessive about your fantasies. You have to realize that women think the same way about their fantasies too. Do not leave her high and dry or the relationship itself might begin floundering.

Keep an open line of communication. Don’t be hesitant to talk about sex with her. Let her feel comfortable with the topic. Then you will find her fantasies tumbling out.

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