It is strange that so small a thing can make such a difference to your life as I was to find that my marriage was not complete until I got my first vibrator. Female toys can make a huge improvement to your sex life, and once I discovered the orgasm, I realized just how important this was.
Sex and marriage work hand in hand and gone are the days when women are expected to lie flat on their backs and not take any pleasure in this side of the marriage. This sort of thing can actually make or break a relationship.
Complete intimacy means that sex and trust also play a role. If you can trust a man enough to have good sex with him, then you can trust him for anything.
My introduction to female toys came about by accident – I received and invitation to an adult party plan party. This was sent by a work colleague from a partner company and as we had a good working relationship, this was a good opportunity for us to get to know each other better.
I arrived to find the atmosphere in the room palpable, the ladies who were already there exuded excitement. When Beverley actually told me what all the excitement was about, I was a bit nervous, but she told me not to be, it was all in the sprit of good fun, so I relaxed.
It was good fun, the girls were already having a good time.
When the lady arrived and started unpacking all her goods, I have to admit I was fascinated. She gave a good and amusing talk and actually was very good at her job, explaining how her experience with female toys and potions saved her marriage. It was then I became concerned that my orgasm was definitely missing from my marriage.
My situation was different, but I could see that a couple of years down the line, I could be in the same boat. My husband and I had discussed the fact that sex did not really turn me on, so to speak, but although it didn’t bug me now, it might later.
On her suggestion I bought a small waterproof double bullet vibrator unit, a role play outfit (the French maid) and motion lotion. She told me that bullet vibrators are always the best female toys to get if it is your first attempt, they are not so intimidating.
When I shared all this information with my husband, he was very open and also really excited for my package to arrive. This was the first of many similar brown paper packages we have opened together and he sometimes say why don’t you order this or that, so I now have quite a collection. We play together now and sometimes it’s a game of Monopoly, but sometimes its also the police woman locking the bad boy up in handcuffs with no get out of jail free card we love Adult Party Plan.
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